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Dumping your Boyfriend
Breaking up with your boyfriend can be really harsh sometimes. Don't put the pressure up on him. Here are some reasons how to and how not to dump him
Don't dump him if he is troubling with life for example, parents, tons of homework, friends etc.
Don't break up with him over text (msn, myspace, SMS) Say it face to face
Don't dump him infront of everyone! It can be embarrasing sometimes...
When dumping him, don't go over-board. Like for example, don't yell at him or try and make him jeleous
Don't act nasty and dump him as soon as he does something wrong. There might be a problem with that. Boys can not realize what they are doing sometimes, so they do soemthing wrong without noticing it. So just tell him how you feel about that and if he says he promises he won't do it again, give him another chance
Don't pretend you still love him. If you dump him and really don't love him but you say you do to make him feel better, don't do that. It can really make him angry if he finds out the truth. Or if he finds you going out with another boy
There are so many other ways! But if you dump someone, don't go out with nother the next minute. That's really hrash and you will need some time to get over your realationship.
Asking someone out
In teenage world, asking someone out means dating them. There are heaps of ways to do that! You don't really have to go up to him and 'ask him out' like asking 'would you go out with me?' You don't have to do that! Just get close with that boy and then soon both of you will realize that you are going out. For example, how your first kiss goes. If you both leaned in on eachother at the same time, without 'kind of been asked too' then you will realize. Or if the both of you are relaxed and not confused or scared. Or where it is sometimes. At the movies, is the most romantic place for couples, so that's why he asked you right?
If the boy asks you to the movies (and you go and there is no one but you and him out of your mates and his mates) then that's a kind of way of asking 'would you go out with me?' But be sure that you are hooking up witht eh right person. If you don't have feelings for him then don't kiss him or continue to hang out with him. If you feel either confused or scared then I think you should let the dating thing have a rest.
How to apologise
Here the questions that you are willing to ask!
Why is it hard?
Some people have trouble to say 'I'm sorry' to other people because they think it's a sign of weakness. They might not be really 'headstrong' and hate admitting that they're wrong
What do I do if it wasn't my fault?
Never apologise if it wasn't your fault and you know that. Theres no point in syaing your sorry if you have no reason to say it! If it was both of your fault, then apoligise for it, but leave room for your friend to return the favour to you
What do I do if she/he still won't forgive me after I've said sorry?
Saying sorry to somebody doesn't automatically mean that your friends again or they forgive you. This situationc an be hard to deal with if your friend rejects your apology. The best thing to do is just leave her/him alone for a little while. Don't keep trying because this will only make him/her more up-set about it. Just keep in mind, you've done soemthing right and that's ll you can do, she/he just needs some time
How do I say it?
Do it in person
Apologise face to face. Never apologise over the phone or worse yet by text or mail
Don't offend them
Remember your friend is up-set so choose your words really wisly.
Timing is everything
You should apologise as soon as possible, but think about what you're going to say before you blurt it out. If you blurt it out, then it might offend your friend and make her/him angrier
Admit your wrong
You need to regret your actions, take responsibility and be willing to fix things with your friend. But remember, if you were not wrong at all, then don't even apologise!
Mean it
There is no point in apologising if you really don't mean it deep, deep down. For example:
If your friend did something bad, and she 'made' you do it with her then maybe you need some time to think about apologising. None of this was your fault, therefore she should apolise but you should of never aggreeed to do it with her. So if something like this happened to you, then maybe you don't want to apoligise because she'll get you into more trouble.
Flowers or gifts can heal broken friendships
I'm not saying write a letter and give it to her by mail or anything, you should definiltly apologise face-to-face but maybe give her/him some flowers or gifts with a friendship poem attachted to it tor soemthing. That can really heal friendships.
Explian your mistake
For instance, if you blurted out her secret infront of some people explain to her what's really true. Say "I didn't mean to blurt it out. You know I'm a big mouth, so I don't actually realise what I say. I'm so so sorry" or something like that. That can make your friend feel like it wasn't your fault.
Why people are chocoholics
You might have noticed that a lot of people are addicted to chocolate. Why is that you ask? Why chocolate and not lollies? Well there is many reasons for that question. Chocolate is a rich, melting peice of dark brown 'brick' (Chocolate can come in many shapes and sizes) while lollies are just little colored things that you just eat. Chocolate, you can suck on and you get a huge melting, rich, dark taste while lollies, on the other hand, you can suck on it but it doesn't give you as much flavor and certanly doesn't melt in your mouth. People love to eat chocolate so much because it sometimes calms your nerves down and if you are stressing, you forget all about the problem your stressing on. I'm afraid I can't explain it more then that. But in conclusion, People are addicted because it's very rich and meltive and makes you drool ;)
Why people bully
There arew many reasons why people bully, and believe it or not, the main reason why people bully is that they are being bullied themselves, or have been in an earlier childhood. We all want to stop this bullying, but I am afraid we can't. We can maybe stop a few people, but that won't change the whole world now would it? Here are some reasons why people normally bully.
They get/got bullied themselves
They had a bad childhood
They are spolit
They want attention
They like being tough and scared of
They are jelous of the people they bully
They have a crush on the people they bully
Now the last one was a little low, but believe me, that can happen. Sometimes, especially boys, bully girls by teasing them but that can mean that they have a little crush on them. Those are all the reasons why people normally bully, can you think of anything else??
Starting a domain
Do you want a Domain? Tired of Piczo? Tired of Freewebs? Well, think about it. Starting up your own domain isn't as easy as it looks. I mean face it, if you know nothing about HTML, CSS or coding, think twice about getting a domain. Html, Css and coding has everything to do with your domain. It's not like Piczo, they offer you if you want pictures and you could like move the pictures and text around without coding anything. And in Freewebs, they also offer you to upload pictures, links etc. You do code in Freewebs, so you should be done with that.
To start up your own Domain you need to have responsibilty and you need to respect your visitors. If you do not do those things, there is no such point in making your domain and don't even ask why. That's the basics. Then theirs the use of your graphics. You need to look at other tutorials and start to learn about layouting. That's the main thing you need for graphics. Then you can make the small stuff like bullets, blends, blank-buttons and etc. Layouting is a whole other article, but theres something you guys should know. If you are making a layout, feel free to use brushes that people offer and PNG's. But make sure you do this once or twice then you should be starting to make your own brushes and PNG's and normal layouts. You need to be your own style of perfection in your layouts. Who really cares what others think about making their layouts, if you don't like it. You could also follow some Layout-tutorials on some sites. Then you'll get to know more of the effects on your program and start to merge things in abit.
When I got hosted first by Forgotten-Hearts.net, I was pretty sure it wasn't going to be hard. But boy was I wrong! I looked at my FTP (The program everyone uses to make their domains) and was like 'WTF?' I didn't see anything I knew. Because everything was like full, everywhere. I started thinking about starting up a Freewebs, just to learn more about some coding. So I did. By then, my coding was getting better and better everyday. I was still working on my freewebs, until about 2-3 months later. That's when I thought I should be starting with my FTP. I tried, and I did accomplish it with my coding! Thanks to Freewebs. Then for my images and links, I looked back at my Freewebs and saw that when you clicked on 'Put a link' and pressed OK, a code comes up. That's the code I used for my pictures. So I did the same with the links and I got them up on my FTP!!
So what I'm saying is starting a domain is very hard. Think about this twice. I have some FTP tutorials if you like. And so many others have tutorials too. Graphics are pretty hard too, and I am still learning myself at this stage. There are a few tutorials out there about making Graphics. I also have some 'Advanced Pictures' tutotials, which you could use and make them pictures for your layouts etc. Just be patient with everything! Your domain isn't going to run-away! Take your time at learning and don't rush at anything.
Layouting
Making a real layout is pretty hard at first, but then it gets easier as you start to get to know more of the effects in your program. There are a few rules, or better-yet things I mostly think about when making a layout. Here they are:
1. Be patient. When your looking for some pictures, don't use the same person or things everytime. And don't just see a picture and go 'that's it! i like it!' because it's not all about the picture. Think about the questions. Do you think they'll look good together?
2. Be creative and original. Don't sort of look at a layout you saw on a website and copy it. Make your own!
3. Think about the colors. There is no point in making a layout with a million colors that don't match. Will the colors look good on your CSS?
4. Always think of your visitors. Do you think they'll be offended by this layout?
5. Do not rush things. Like Rule no.1, you need to be patient. The more time you get on your layout, the more good it looks.
6. Look for suitable brushes and textures. These will lighten up your layout
That's pretty much all you need to know when your making a layout. But the main thing is, like I mentioned 2 times already, be patient and don't rush anything. Being original will get you all the credit. If you like, you could look at some tutorials for the program your using, just so you can get to know more of the effects. Have fun while your making your layout, and be very creative. Don't just use 3 pictures (same size) and like blend them together. You will proberly need a few PNG's.
Is she really your friend?
Okay; so she says she's your friend but now it's time to step in and ask the big question Is she really your friend? This situation has been happeneing since god knows when. Girls are so-called friends with other girls, but really they're not real friends at all. How do you know if she's really a trure-friend?
1. She doesn't make you look bad on purpose infront of all the boys
2. She doesn't bitch about you.
3. She's always there by your side when you need her.
4. She doesn't flirt with the guy you have a crush on/your boyfriend
5. She doesn't tell all of the dudes/girls a secret and keeps it away from you
6. She posts bad pics of you on her Myspace/Facebook etc.
Those are the main reasons a girl would be your true friend. If your friend did any of those, then she is not a true-friend at all. Maybe try talking to this friend and telling her how you feel. If she slacks off, laughing then forget about her. But if she apologises truthfully, then maybe give her another chance. Remember, girls can get really bitchy and there are many reasons.
1. Do you have something she might be jelous of?
2. Do you have a boyfriend that she might have a crush on?
3. Do you get most of the attention from the boys?
4. How big is the group your in at school?
Ask yourself those questions and you'll be surprised at the answers you get. This girl might be bitching about you etc because she's jelous of you. She might have a crush on your boyfriend She wants to get the attention from the boys. She might even want to be apart of the big group in school. (a.k.a popular group) Trust me, if you ask yourself those questions and answer them; you'll be so surprised at what you get. So, think about if any of your friends have done any of the aboveABOVE^^ and find out if they really are a true friend.
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Apologise face to face. Never apologise over the phone or worse yet by text or mail
Remember your friend is up-set so choose your words really wisly.
If your friend did something bad, and she 'made' you do it with her then maybe you need some time to think about apologising. None of this was your fault, therefore she should apolise but you should of never aggreeed to do it with her. So if something like this happened to you, then maybe you don't want to apoligise because she'll get you into more trouble.
I'm not saying write a letter and give it to her by mail or anything, you should definiltly apologise face-to-face but maybe give her/him some flowers or gifts with a friendship poem attachted to it tor soemthing. That can really heal friendships.
For instance, if you blurted out her secret infront of some people explain to her what's really true. Say "I didn't mean to blurt it out. You know I'm a big mouth, so I don't actually realise what I say. I'm so so sorry" or something like that. That can make your friend feel like it wasn't your fault.
Why people bully
There arew many reasons why people bully, and believe it or not, the main reason why people bully is that they are being bullied themselves, or have been in an earlier childhood. We all want to stop this bullying, but I am afraid we can't. We can maybe stop a few people, but that won't change the whole world now would it? Here are some reasons why people normally bully.
They get/got bullied themselves
They had a bad childhood
They are spolit
They want attention
They like being tough and scared of
They are jelous of the people they bully
They have a crush on the people they bully
Now the last one was a little low, but believe me, that can happen. Sometimes, especially boys, bully girls by teasing them but that can mean that they have a little crush on them. Those are all the reasons why people normally bully, can you think of anything else??
Starting a domain
Do you want a Domain? Tired of Piczo? Tired of Freewebs? Well, think about it. Starting up your own domain isn't as easy as it looks. I mean face it, if you know nothing about HTML, CSS or coding, think twice about getting a domain. Html, Css and coding has everything to do with your domain. It's not like Piczo, they offer you if you want pictures and you could like move the pictures and text around without coding anything. And in Freewebs, they also offer you to upload pictures, links etc. You do code in Freewebs, so you should be done with that.
To start up your own Domain you need to have responsibilty and you need to respect your visitors. If you do not do those things, there is no such point in making your domain and don't even ask why. That's the basics. Then theirs the use of your graphics. You need to look at other tutorials and start to learn about layouting. That's the main thing you need for graphics. Then you can make the small stuff like bullets, blends, blank-buttons and etc. Layouting is a whole other article, but theres something you guys should know. If you are making a layout, feel free to use brushes that people offer and PNG's. But make sure you do this once or twice then you should be starting to make your own brushes and PNG's and normal layouts. You need to be your own style of perfection in your layouts. Who really cares what others think about making their layouts, if you don't like it. You could also follow some Layout-tutorials on some sites. Then you'll get to know more of the effects on your program and start to merge things in abit.
When I got hosted first by Forgotten-Hearts.net, I was pretty sure it wasn't going to be hard. But boy was I wrong! I looked at my FTP (The program everyone uses to make their domains) and was like 'WTF?' I didn't see anything I knew. Because everything was like full, everywhere. I started thinking about starting up a Freewebs, just to learn more about some coding. So I did. By then, my coding was getting better and better everyday. I was still working on my freewebs, until about 2-3 months later. That's when I thought I should be starting with my FTP. I tried, and I did accomplish it with my coding! Thanks to Freewebs. Then for my images and links, I looked back at my Freewebs and saw that when you clicked on 'Put a link' and pressed OK, a code comes up. That's the code I used for my pictures. So I did the same with the links and I got them up on my FTP!!
So what I'm saying is starting a domain is very hard. Think about this twice. I have some FTP tutorials if you like. And so many others have tutorials too. Graphics are pretty hard too, and I am still learning myself at this stage. There are a few tutorials out there about making Graphics. I also have some 'Advanced Pictures' tutotials, which you could use and make them pictures for your layouts etc. Just be patient with everything! Your domain isn't going to run-away! Take your time at learning and don't rush at anything.
Layouting
Making a real layout is pretty hard at first, but then it gets easier as you start to get to know more of the effects in your program. There are a few rules, or better-yet things I mostly think about when making a layout. Here they are:
1. Be patient. When your looking for some pictures, don't use the same person or things everytime. And don't just see a picture and go 'that's it! i like it!' because it's not all about the picture. Think about the questions. Do you think they'll look good together?
2. Be creative and original. Don't sort of look at a layout you saw on a website and copy it. Make your own!
3. Think about the colors. There is no point in making a layout with a million colors that don't match. Will the colors look good on your CSS?
4. Always think of your visitors. Do you think they'll be offended by this layout?
5. Do not rush things. Like Rule no.1, you need to be patient. The more time you get on your layout, the more good it looks.
6. Look for suitable brushes and textures. These will lighten up your layout
That's pretty much all you need to know when your making a layout. But the main thing is, like I mentioned 2 times already, be patient and don't rush anything. Being original will get you all the credit. If you like, you could look at some tutorials for the program your using, just so you can get to know more of the effects. Have fun while your making your layout, and be very creative. Don't just use 3 pictures (same size) and like blend them together. You will proberly need a few PNG's.
Is she really your friend?
Okay; so she says she's your friend but now it's time to step in and ask the big question Is she really your friend? This situation has been happeneing since god knows when. Girls are so-called friends with other girls, but really they're not real friends at all. How do you know if she's really a trure-friend?
1. She doesn't make you look bad on purpose infront of all the boys
2. She doesn't bitch about you.
3. She's always there by your side when you need her.
4. She doesn't flirt with the guy you have a crush on/your boyfriend
5. She doesn't tell all of the dudes/girls a secret and keeps it away from you
6. She posts bad pics of you on her Myspace/Facebook etc.
Those are the main reasons a girl would be your true friend. If your friend did any of those, then she is not a true-friend at all. Maybe try talking to this friend and telling her how you feel. If she slacks off, laughing then forget about her. But if she apologises truthfully, then maybe give her another chance. Remember, girls can get really bitchy and there are many reasons.
1. Do you have something she might be jelous of?
2. Do you have a boyfriend that she might have a crush on?
3. Do you get most of the attention from the boys?
4. How big is the group your in at school?
Ask yourself those questions and you'll be surprised at the answers you get. This girl might be bitching about you etc because she's jelous of you. She might have a crush on your boyfriend She wants to get the attention from the boys. She might even want to be apart of the big group in school. (a.k.a popular group) Trust me, if you ask yourself those questions and answer them; you'll be so surprised at what you get. So, think about if any of your friends have done any of the aboveABOVE^^ and find out if they really are a true friend.
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1. Be patient. When your looking for some pictures, don't use the same person or things everytime. And don't just see a picture and go 'that's it! i like it!' because it's not all about the picture. Think about the questions. Do you think they'll look good together?
2. Be creative and original. Don't sort of look at a layout you saw on a website and copy it. Make your own!
3. Think about the colors. There is no point in making a layout with a million colors that don't match. Will the colors look good on your CSS?
4. Always think of your visitors. Do you think they'll be offended by this layout?
5. Do not rush things. Like Rule no.1, you need to be patient. The more time you get on your layout, the more good it looks.
6. Look for suitable brushes and textures. These will lighten up your layout
That's pretty much all you need to know when your making a layout. But the main thing is, like I mentioned 2 times already, be patient and don't rush anything. Being original will get you all the credit. If you like, you could look at some tutorials for the program your using, just so you can get to know more of the effects. Have fun while your making your layout, and be very creative. Don't just use 3 pictures (same size) and like blend them together. You will proberly need a few PNG's.
Is she really your friend?
Okay; so she says she's your friend but now it's time to step in and ask the big question Is she really your friend? This situation has been happeneing since god knows when. Girls are so-called friends with other girls, but really they're not real friends at all. How do you know if she's really a trure-friend?
1. She doesn't make you look bad on purpose infront of all the boys
2. She doesn't bitch about you.
3. She's always there by your side when you need her.
4. She doesn't flirt with the guy you have a crush on/your boyfriend
5. She doesn't tell all of the dudes/girls a secret and keeps it away from you
6. She posts bad pics of you on her Myspace/Facebook etc.
Those are the main reasons a girl would be your true friend. If your friend did any of those, then she is not a true-friend at all. Maybe try talking to this friend and telling her how you feel. If she slacks off, laughing then forget about her. But if she apologises truthfully, then maybe give her another chance. Remember, girls can get really bitchy and there are many reasons.
1. Do you have something she might be jelous of?
2. Do you have a boyfriend that she might have a crush on?
3. Do you get most of the attention from the boys?
4. How big is the group your in at school?
Ask yourself those questions and you'll be surprised at the answers you get. This girl might be bitching about you etc because she's jelous of you. She might have a crush on your boyfriend She wants to get the attention from the boys. She might even want to be apart of the big group in school. (a.k.a popular group) Trust me, if you ask yourself those questions and answer them; you'll be so surprised at what you get. So, think about if any of your friends have done any of the aboveABOVE^^ and find out if they really are a true friend.
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Tori ~ Suzi ~ Kirsty ~ Ben ~ Sarah. ~ Apply
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Affies.
Tori ~ Suzi ~ Kirsty ~ Ben ~ Sarah. ~ Apply
Pending:
Shelby
Copyrighted (c) sweetish.sodevious.net 2007-2008
Smilies from Vejc-design.com